“At Deva Empowerment we work with self-employed women who are hiding their money worries and embarrassment behind bright smiles and bravado, to rewrite their money story simply and effortlessly.  Leading to peace of mind and empowerment with money so that they grow their self-worth and their net-worth.”

“It’s alright for you!”

I wonder what you would  say and do if this statement was levied at you?

This statement was a defining moment in my life.

I was a 30 something mum of three very young children stressed and struggling to make ends meet with the money my husband earned.

My husband was the sole wage earner and I didn’t have much clue about money except that there was always more month than money and our family debt was growing.

“It’s alright for you.” was levied at me at a dinner party where there were several couples, ‘friends’ eating together, the wine was flowing and tongues got loose, very loose in some cases.

The topic of conversation turned to money and the financial sob stories began. When I chipped in with my humble beginnings (inner city, back to back housing in Manchester) I got shot down in flames. This particular person didn’t want to hear my story as my life was sorted. I was married to a doctor (I still am) and I didn’t go out to work.

There was something about the statement that got to me. I went out of my way to prove to this person that I wasn’t ok and life wasn’t alright for me.

I wore the dowdiest clothes you can imagine. I made myself look way older than I actually was. I chose to shrink away from socialising as I didn’t want to be attacked, picked on or bullied, and I buried my head in the sand with what was required to go beyond being ‘alright’.

I didn’t look at what was ok in my world. Instead I chose to focus on how wrong I was with everything.

Except the Universe had something else for me and I would find myself very naturally choosing to upscale my life. Only then when that was in place would I revert to listening to the voice of doubt and fear and go back to living in a world of wrongness. Living in a self-created world of wrongness sent me spiralling down a rabbit hole of illnesses, stress and sabotage.

What I came to realise was that I could take all the tablets or supplements in the world but if I wasn’t addressing the one thing that was holding me back, my mind and the conversations it had with me, no amount of dietary change, while beneficial in many ways, was going to give me the energy and zest for life I truly desired. After all, at this time I had three children all in their teenage years and I was like a wrung out rag, pouring from an empty pot and totally burnout.

Then one day I had an epiphany. At this time I was attending many different courses all over the country in my search for relief from my stresses and illnesses and it dawned on me that the money always showed up no matter where I wished to go or which health related course I wished to go on. I was indeed ‘alright’.

I still had some way to go before I changed the wrongness of me into a strongness of me and acknowledged that I was capable of so much more than I had been willing to step into until this moment.

Choosing to change the wrongness of me and recognise the strongness of me really accelerated when I attended many Access Consciousness® courses. This modality fast forwarded the change I was asking for in every area of my life and I am so, so grateful for this.

 

Who are your clients?

My clients are predominantly self-employed women aged 40 years and older who are to a greater or lesser degree experiencing mental stress with their money flows and are looking to change this.

Many can’t fully articulate the problem or their issue, they just know that something is preventing them from living a happy and extraordinary life. They desire to wake up in the morning and have an ease and a calmness that gets them through the day rather than the throb and buzz of anxiety that they have been waking up and living with for so long.

These women range in professions from teachers, to full time mothers, to self-employed therapists and coaches and many times they are a mix of full or part-time employed or self-employed, mother, wife, partner, carer to an aging relative and so on. So much to do and no time for themselves to focus on what it is they truly desire.

I have met many women who would love to have more money and for some reason stop themselves from choosing this. What will people think if they show up wearing more expensive clothes? Money is for the lucky ones and not for her. Being successful in business, with money AND with her family and relationships is her desire but she cannot see how she is going to achieve this. Mediocre, and not successful, is her unspoken mantra.

She maybe a therapist or coach who hasn’t yet got to grips with how to market herself and her business. Instead of recognising this she goes off and does yet another course, because the money isn’t showing up because she just doesn’t have enough therapy or coaching skills. Nothing could be further from the truth.

What she doesn’t have is the guide to being, doing and having money, She may have many internal saboteurs working to keep her safe when what she actually needs are tools to develop the wise women, who takes calculated risks with money she could truly be.

I would like to say that if I can change my mindset, recognise where I am self-sabotaging, then so can you.

I believe that there is a confident and courageous women in you just waiting to set off on her journey to realising her true potential and magical capacities with money.

Do you work with women under the age of 40 and men?

I absolutely do and love doing this. Age or gender are not limiting factors here. There is no discrimination here. It just so happens that the majority of people who seek my facilitation are women who are self-employed and over 40.

What my clients, of any age, have found is the fresh perspective that I bring to their stress relief seeking process. I offer resources, tools and techniques that they have never heard of and yet bring quite rapid relief to their issues when they implement the resources offered.

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

The Deva Empowerment courses, workshops, membership and private sessions are created for people who are excited and very serious about creating the shift in their wealth and money well-being that they desire.

In Access Consciousness we say that Consciousness includes everything and judges nothing. So whether you are super shy or super outgoing you can still be experiencing a mental stress in some area of your life and wishing you had the information and tools that would gain you a shift to mental strength and discovering the strongness that you truly be.

Having been the person who has put in the hours to get myself to a level of mental money strength that has surpassed my own expectations, I am inviting you, if you are ready to take the necessary steps, to discover what action you need to take to develop your mental money strength.

I have no expectations of you. What I show you and guide you towards is that we all have choices, greater than we never imagined that we may not have stepped into yet.

 

What type of person is the bespoke facilitation session NOT going to work?

Please know that I will be gently selective in who I work with as a private client. Some people will not be suited to my programmes, my way of challenging limiting beliefs and the results that you may be expecting. It wouldn’t be fair on either of us as this is like setting you up to fail and me to disappointment as a facilitator.

The Deva Empowerment  programmes are not for the sceptical who want me to prove something about myself and how I work or the tools I use. Also if you are someone who knows before you even ask to speak to me that you won’t complete any action plans that we craft, then you are wasting your money and my time. If this sounds harsh I do apologise. I know that we wouldn’t work well together, with both of us experiencing some degree of frustration along the way.

One more thing to consider. You may wish to change, know that you require this, but consider that my charges are too high or you are experiencing financial restrictions of some sort. I would not wish you to embark on a programme with me while all the while wondering how you are going to pay your next bill. I’ve been there. There is no judgement from me just a realisation that in these circumstances you won’t give your all. To this end you can find tools that may help to shift some of your stuckness in the FREE downloads section of my website www.devaempowerment.com.

When something shifts for you then get back to me. Please don’t rush this process. I intend to be around for a good while yet.

 

What is the Deva Empowerment system and what does it include?

The Deva Empowerment system of programmes is about empowering you to know that you know what it is that you desire and require to live your most fulfilled life. Where are you right now and where do you truly wish to be in any and all areas of your life with an emphasis being on your money situation, the biggest of challenges that we can face in this reality?

Having consistently strong mental money health instead of mental money stress, anxiety and overwhelm requires steady and diligent application of the tools and techniques that are offered to you.

Here is what the Deva Empowerment system asks you to do and we go through this in no particular order during our sessions. All is available to you  and we start with where you are right now:

Curiosity 

Get curious. Invite yourself to this in deep, deep dive of a personal exploration. In order to know where you are you have to take stock of the situation that you find yourself in and who you find yourself with. This is a not where you think you should be in life or where you hope and dream that you may be. This is a no holds barred, right where you are, right here, right now invitation to dig deep and unearth the beliefs that have shaped you and your money situation to date and are now no longer serving you. The cultural norms that you have accepted and now are beginning to recognise no longer serve you. Get curious about it all, the good, the bad and the downright ugly.

Trust you

How often have you followed someone else’s well-meaning advice instead of your inner knowing? Recall my rejection of my life being ‘alright’ in favour of sabotaging that? We are going to discover that you can trust yourself in totality and without judgement of your choices. We will work on the most intimate of relationships of all, the one that you are refusing to have with you. By trusting you, you will begin the process of communing with every molecule in the universe, which is a great space to begin the process of peace of mind and building mental strength with money choices.

Asking Questions

Ask questions with everything. Question your choices and challenge everything that you have been and done to this point in your boxed in, narrow minded life. I say this from my heart to yours.

Our aim is to shatter the reality that you think you know in favour of one that will actually work for you. What is it that you are choosing that is limiting you? We ask about what appears normal and yet you know that you are not normal and don’t quite fit with this reality. In fact, you are really quite weird in your own way and have only allowed this to show occasionally. Asking questions becomes one of the greatest tools you will learn during our time together. Ask of the universe again and again and again. The universe truly has your back. You just haven’t allowed yourself to tune in to this capacity, yet.

Process and Processes

It’s a process. It may be messy. There may be tears. There will be challenges. There will also be laughter. You may screw up. However, you will learn to let go of the end goal and focus on the process of unearthing you.  This is where you begin to learn to embrace, “What next?” and enjoy it. You will recognise the rules that you have been living with for what they are, total bullshit. (Bullshit Rules = ‘Brules’) This is where you will learn where you haven’t been willing to take full responsibility for you and your money situation. This is where we stop pretending that you are like everyone else. This where you learn to break through your glass ceilings using processes and tools designed to encourage you to let go of your walls and barriers that you have erected that lock in the fear and are keeping you stuck and unhappy.

Tools and Techniques

There are many tools and techniques that that you are going to learn about and learn how to use in every situation you find yourself in. Have you noticed that what you resist persists and you create more resistance? By using heart opening tools you will get to the lightness of you rather than the heaviness of the resistance you have been used to using. Choosing the lightness of you, the enlightened being you truly be is encouraged to emerge. This may take time or it may happen as if by magic. Neither is right or wrong.

Action

You are the source for creating the change you desire. You will be encouraged to take action in between the sessions that you choose to book with me. You will be encouraged to take imperfect action over and over again. Taking action will include you using the tools that have been carefully selected for you. Without action there will be no change. My desire for you is that you embrace the change. If you wish to go beyond your stuckness, your lack of motivation, your doubt and worrying, your jumpy and nervousness then you will have to take action. Some action will be you looking at your points of view about your situation. Other action may include listening to me via a guided meditation. This is where you get to pivot or you may think of it as changing tracks. As you take action, beyond your sessions with me, you will discover a willingness to challenge out dated beliefs, use the tools and discover more of who you truly be with money and your willingness to attract way more of it.

Being You – The inspiration and the greatness you truly be

Break free from this reality’s terms and conditions and adopt a new and expansive way of being. Being aware. Being open to possibilities. Being mentally stronger. Being mentally wealthier. Being the magic you truly be. Being empowered to be everything in life you wish to be. Being the inspiration and greatness for you and for others that you know is truly possible. How does it get any better than this? What are you that you’re desperately trying not to be? What if the purpose of life is actually to have fun? What if you being you is what this world requires right now. YOU in all your brilliance, your experiences, your challenges and your choices. What if now is the time?

My target with you is this, I would like you to achieve the greatness of you that you could be and so far have not known how to be. I would like to acknowledge you in all of your potency and magnificence. I would like to get you to a place where you can acknowledge you in all of your potency and magnificence too. Be the joy of you and the money will flow.

What else can I expect from your programmes?

What begins to happen for so many people who choose a Deva Empowerment programme (and coaching with me) is ‘pings of awareness’.

You will begin to notice when something in your world pings for you.

You may prefer to call it a light bulb moment or an AHA! moment.

I suggest that you get ready to have a lot of these as you put the tools, that you haven’t been able to find until now, that I recommend for you, into action.

 

Based on everything we’ve read and heard so far, what are my options for getting started with you?

First of all, I would love to acknowledge you in all of this and your choice to get started with me. I am so grateful.

To get started with me so that you can go from mental money stresses to mental money strengths and discover your ease and tranquillity, you have several options to choose from:

  • There are the Bespoke Coaching Sessions available from twelve sessions, four sessions or one session. I would highly recommend the twelve sessions as we can really deep dive into many of your issues, what to do, what to stop doing and you will of course receive many more tools than any of the other programmes.
  • Workshops, both in person and online, are a great way to immerse yourself along with others in a specific topic that is stress or mental health related, for example, ‘From Stressed Out to Stepping Up’, ‘Money Troubles to Money Ease’, ‘How to become money’, and many more  as the time is right to reveal them.
  • Access Bars® individual in person sessions or a training day may be your way forward. I offer at least one training day per month and often at a weekend, from The Room at Chester Health Store.
  • In 2022 there will be many more workshops, courses, membership and so much more coming available. Do return to the website on a regular basis or sign up for our newsletters and blogs where so much is revealed every month.

If someone isn’t quite ready to dive in just yet what can she do about this?

A way to get to know me and Deva Empowerment is to keep checking back on the website, as regular changes and updates occur there including the success stories of people who have already experienced one of the options available in the list above.

Also, signing up for our newsletter is a great way to stay in touch with us.

On social media I can be found on Facebook as Deva Empowerment as well as on Instagram.

When you are ready to choose beyond this and would like to know more or have questions to ask you can contact Denise via email at deniseoliver@devaempowerment.com

If you would like to get acquainted, we can do this at a designated time and date using the Zoom platform and eventually, coming out of Covid and it’s restrictions, we may be able to meet over a cup of coffee.

I can’t wait to see you go from mental money stress to mental money strength, so that you get live your extraordinary life and grow your self-worth and your net-worth with total ease.

It is an honour to be on this journey with you. Thank you.

What else is truly possible now?

Denise Oliver

CEO (Chief Empowerment Officer)

Deva Empowerment

The Room

Chester Health Store

59 Bridge Street, East

Chester. CH1 1NW